Dirty talk, that is, vulgarity in bed that excites you.
Along with sexting, dirty talk in the bedroom is something that many people struggle with but at the same time desire.
Some people like it, others would like to do it, but are too shy.
Here are the top five dirty talking tips for anyone who wants to feel sincere and find their inner dirty voice. So if you don't know what to say to a woman during intercourse, or you can't (but want to) whisper in a guy's ear, this article is for you!
Know your dirty thoughts
Everyone has a different idea of what is "dirty". In other words, not all dirt is fun for everyone. I'm very perverted, so I don't think talking about anal games, for example, is particularly dirty, and for some people it can really be a taboo topic.
Here, the criterion will be what really makes your blood beat faster. "The rudest" has the meaning of mystery, animality, primitiveness and forbidden things. So first, play around with these topics in your head and find out what really drives you. Use your playful imagination and all your senses to create scenarios.
Most people who are embarrassed by dirty talk worry that they don't know what to say. The easiest way to get rid of this insecurity is to start exercising. It is best to start the rehearsal by focusing on the other person and using compliments (for example, "I love your pussy"). Once you get used to describing things, words will start flowing.
Find your muse of dirty lyrics.
What dirty thoughts come into your head? It's one thing to think about them, it's another to talk about them. Some people naively share their deepest, darkest and dirtiest thoughts. You have to trust the person you are talking to to give and receive a positive response.
If you are shy, think about things that someone once told you that you took well and immediately turned you on. Use them as inspiration and adapt to the new situation.
Stay sincere when you talk dirty
Dirty talk is NOT a script. It comes from within you. Do not force yourself to do this and do not plan anything in advance. This is an adult game, improvisational and fun! You have your own original style of dirty talk. Let it be strange, confusing and imperfect! Don't listen to your inner critic or editor. Don't try to control what you say now, it's real magic.
If you can write it, you can say it.
Some people are good at sexting, but when it comes time to say it, they're shy. In today's digital age, we are used to communicating via text messages or social media. Our voices are being used less and less. But our voice and throat chakra are connected to our genitals, especially in women. We are one of the few female mammals that make sounds during sex. So remember that using your voice in the bedroom is natural.
The master hits the ball
Because it takes two to play dirty, like in tango. If you are fighting dirty with your partner, who is not in the mood and does not respond, this is not a problem. After all, talking about sex is entertainment!
To use an analogy with volleyball: if you say something dirty to your partner, and he "throws the ball" back to you, responding with an open, positive tone and dirty words - the game is on! Hit the ball again, reacting instinctively.
To keep the ball in play, use the basic principle of improvisation: "yes, and...". This rule means that you never deny or reject a dirty idea, regardless of whether it is implemented or not. For example, when I whispered to my partner while he was working at home at the computer, "I want to get under your desk right now and suck you off until your eyes roll in my head," and he replied: "You're so hot, it makes it hard for me right away." I'll finish work in 5 minutes and take you to the bedroom.
After all, saying dirty things is fun, and it's an important part of foreplay, pleasure during and after sex (don't forget to mention what you just did! This is also dirty talk!).
It just takes a little courage to let dirty words fly out of your mouth. I urge you to whisper something hot, spicy and dirty in your partner's ear right now! It is worth paying attention to his reaction and if you see that he is excited, the game has just begun!
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