BDSM: who does this?

Today, everyone has at least a basic understanding of BDSM – largely thanks to the film "50 Shades of Grey", which has gained impressive popularity. Latex, spikes, whips, handcuffs and chains are all attributes of perverted sex that we often see in movies and the Internet.

For more than a century, people who used beatings and humiliation for sexual pleasure were considered mentally ill. To this day, many people are convinced that the craving for BDSM is a form of mental deviation that is present only in mentally unhealthy individuals. But you can be sure – this is nonsense.

BDSM is, in fact, a perverted game in which a significant role is played by the safety of all participants, and there is nothing wrong with that. Even the science of mind and human behavior has finally agreed with this.

Sigmund Freud claimed that thoughts of humiliation and violence during sex are a sign of mental health problems, modern research suggests the opposite. Studies show that BDSM practitioners tend to have lower levels of depression and anxiety than ordinary people.
In addition, BDSM lovers demonstrated a higher level of extraversion, consciousness, openness to new experiences and subjective well-being.

There is a connection between pleasure and pain, and it is deeply ingrained in our biology. To begin with, all types of pain cause the central nervous system to release endorphins. Endorphins are proteins that block pain and act like opiates (such as morphine), meaning they not only stop unpleasant sensations, but also cause a feeling of euphoria.
In BDSM, as a rule, there is a dominant and a subordinate. The dominant one completely controls the partner and demonstrates his superiority in every possible way, while the subordinate temporarily gives up control and assumes total power over himself and his body.

It's time to take stock. Contrary to popular belief, people who practice BDSM in their sex lives are no different from others. There is no point in denying that there is pleasure in some pain, and we are all more or less prone to striving for it. 

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